Very few of us are educated
in reality. Even if we have perfect and exemplary families, still not many have
the courage to open up to us what the real reality of boy-girl relationships
is.
First, maybe because they do
not understand the reality. Second, perhaps because they want to protect us
from the harshness of reality and make sure our lives are orderly, safe, and
the way they should be. Unfortunately, because of all their teachings about
being the way we should be, many of us grow up to be boys who are dysfunctional
to girls. The idea that we are obliged to pay attention diligently, to be
mature and polite, which is usually called a Gentleman, often brings us around
the endless Ngarep Valley. How many guys out there think that to get a girl,
you have to 'buy' her attention first? At first glance it does give the effect
you desire. Friendship with girls will be more intense than with other guys.
Girls also feel very
comfortable with you. You enjoy all the gossip and teasing so much that you
forget that you are not actually like that. The reason a girl is comfortable
and fun is just because she can get something from you. A number of girls have
confessed that they don't mind being thought of as dating certain guys if they
can get the perks of interest. Some even dare to actually date. There is no
limit to what girls can do to get what they want.
Talk about reality. The
reality is that in order to have the right relationship, you have to start and
spark attraction right. Being a Gentleman is NOT ABLE to trigger true
attraction. It was only able to bring him to the extent of being just friends.
It's hard for guys to grow into solid and
charismatic characters. Everything is instant, generic, and bulk. No more
originality. We are made into faceless robots.
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