Why do you keep sinking in
failure and never taste the beauty of the world of romance. why your love story
always ends with heartbreak and melancholy. And tragically, no one ever
realized this at all.
You go through rejection
after rejection, and even though you may turn out to be lucky enough to find
yourself a few girlfriends, they all end in tragic and depressing ways.
Heartbreak, heartache,
grief, pain, pain, sadness, sadness, loneliness, feeling unwanted, feeling like
a victim of the cruel world and all other negative emotions become part of your
reality. Coupled with cravings, romantic junkie, approval junkie and other
chronic romance ailments, you become a very melancholy and bitter person. You
are immersed in whiny and mellow songs, local and Asian films that are full of
tears and moments that you hope to become your daily consumption. All of this
seems to confirm what you've been feeling all this time.
And WHEN you withdraw from
your social environment. From family, college, or office. You become a loner,
and you give yourself powerful reasons to be, “This is what I am! I'm a loner.
No body understands what I feel.”
Or if you have many friends
who share the same fate, what you do is spend time complaining, wailing and
lamenting the fate of your romance, which feels darker and darker. You let
yourself drown in a sea of emotions so dark and sad.
No one blames you when you
are sad and hurt. You have the right to feel all of those things. If something
painful happens to someone, of course the normal response is to feel pain. But
the problem is, if you continue to dissolve and sink in that state, and allow
yourself to continue to feel these emotions, without realizing it you are
making yourself addicted. Pain, pain, sadness, sadness, melancholy, joy,
happiness, flowery, anger, annoyance, falling in love and so on that you feel,
those are all emotions.
Emotions are physiological
processes that occur in the body when you receive certain stimulations. And
emotions have a very strong influence on your body and brain. So strong that if
you allow yourself to get carried away with your emotions, you will lose your
mind.
The more often you feel the
same emotional turmoil, the easier it will be for you to trigger those
emotions. The more often you access the same emotions continuously, then it
will become a habit. And without you knowing it you are addicted.
When you feel pain, sadness,
and sadness continuously, then you have used yourself to feel these things. The
more often you feel pain, sadness and loneliness, the easier it will be for you
to trigger these emotions. You don't need a woman to come and reject you, you
just have to see a woman who looks just like her and you will immediately feel
all the pain in your heart. Again and again. Your common sense knows that hurt
is something negative and damaging. But what you think and what you feel don't
always line up, you know, right?
If you are not addicted to
pain, then why do you enjoy the heart-rending pain so much when you watch a
romance drama, where the man waits all night in the pouring rain and brings the
woman's favorite cake only to see her embracing passionately with another man?
If you are not addicted to
pain, then why do you enjoy the feeling of loneliness that hits every night,
when you remember all the painful details of the incident when he seemed to
give hope and then finally rejected and left you?
You are already addicted. But
you don't realize it, and this is what makes your situation worse..To those of
you who are just hearing about all this now, this may sound absurd. but
addiction to certain emotions is a reality that happens to everyone. Everyone
has their own addiction. The sooner you accept and acknowledge your situation,
the sooner you can take action to correct it. That addiction will sabotage
every relationship you have in the world of romance. Because whatever the
woman's response to you, you will always seek the pain.
If the woman responds positively and everything seems to be going well,
you'll be wondering to yourself, “How did it get this smooth? This is too good
to be true.” You feel yourself unworthy to have smooth and beautiful
relationships with women. And you start looking for the evidence.
When he doesn't text you back, or turns down your invitations, goes out
with other guys, and all sorts of other small actions, you'll see this as
confirmation of your negative feelings.
You are caught up in hope and self-pity. If you have this, the results
will match your predictions. The he refused and away from you. Of course, who
would want to be with a self-pitying and pathetic person like that?
This disease is not easy to overcome. Just like people who are addicted
to cigarettes, alcohol or drugs, it is very difficult to break habits that you
enjoy. But that doesn't mean it can't be done.
First, you must make a decision to
overcome your addiction. Promise yourself.
Second, you must stay away from all sources
of your addiction. Cryptic songs, romance movies, and negative thoughts that
often bother you.
Third, you have to change your habits that
are always mellow. Go have fun with your friends, and forget all the bad
memories you've had. Don't you ever remember again.
Slowly but surely, if you continue to do those three things, you will
definitely feel significant changes. Your life will feel brighter and
connecting with women will no longer be something that causes pain and sorrow.
Quit your addiction right now!